Saturday, May 9, 2009

Internship-It's Over!!



The 28 students under my supervision.














Sorting out issues and giving support.





















































Something for me to remember them. Thank you.


























Internship Cake brought by Hanafi.









May 2009, all of you counselling interns 2009 from Unimas will remember. After much toiling, heartaches, almost giving up, tears and complaints for more than 5 months finally you completed this challenging part of your training. Congratulations to all of you. Now you can give a big pat on your shoulder and say ' Good ...............(say your name). You have done well!!'

Finally the intimidating 600 credit hours you have to fulfill, seemed not a big deal after all. I have told you, when you focused on the number. it became a burden. Now you have sailed through and gained so much experience which lecture halls couldnot give you. I see all of you have turned to be confident individuals and a few have secured jobs even before your convocation. Congratulations. I am definitely proud of you!!! I am addressing this blog not only to the 28 students I supervised in Semenanjung but also to all of you who did your intersnhip in Kuching. Don't forget to say a big thank to your supervisors there whose aimed was to help you get over this 'insurmountable task'. Like me, your supervisors also gave a sigh of relief, that it is over. They experienced stress too just like you did.

For my 28 interns in Semenanjung, we had a last group meeting in Selayang Hospital on 8 May 2009. Thank you to Fazlin who organized our group meetings in MMU (with Adneeda), in BMI (Fazlin) and in Selayang Hospital (with Faridah and Noraini). Eja led the group meet on sorting out issues, giving support to everyone and sharing information on job openings. The purpose of this meeting for me is to fulfil the following intents:

1. To check whatever reports that I have not been able to check.
2. To provide a place and time for everybody to finish the unfinished business.
3. To give opportunity to bade farewell.
4. To convey my hope and good wishes.

Believe me, after supervising all of you, I am so proud that you did well. I received so many favourable compliments about your performance from your site supervisors and some worked hard to get you absorbed into the organization. As for me, I saw everyone developed from a student, very unsure of himself/herself into a young man and woman who is confident and knows what he/she should do and could do.

These are the gists of my message I delivered for all of you.

1. A piece of paper, that is, you degree doesn't mean the end of your learning, in fact, it is the beginning of your leaning - about real life. Continue your education, read and sharpen your skills.
2. You are trained to understand and empathise feelings. Keep away from hurting and destroying other people's happiness. When you hurt people, think what you would feel if you were in that person's position.
3. Take care of your self-dignity or maruah diri. Once you did something stupid out of lust or desire, the guilt or shame will follow you right to your old age.
4. Never allow anyone make you feel small. You have self-respect. Evaluate your relationship. if it is toxic, keep away.
5. Respect yourself. Behave as you said other people should behave. Avoid preaching for other people to behave right but your behaviour is contrary to what you preach. Your attitude 'I am holier than thou' is not commendable, in fact it is disgusting.
6. Please do not make a mockery of our religion and use it as an excuse for your unacceptable behaviour.
7. Believe in yourself and hold on to your personal and professional ethics.
8. Do not just wait for government jobs, work and grab opportunity available and make it a success.
9. Be committed to your jobs. Respect time and make your positive behaviour and attitude as role-model for other people to emulate, especially for young people.

Good luck and May Allah Bless you all. I am also bidding farewell to Unimas counselling students. This is my last supervision. I need to enjoy my retirement. With much love from me.

19 comments:

Jenice said...

oh mama... i very miss all the semenanjung friends.. and of course mama as well..
very happy to see u all from ur photo..
internship is a very nice experience and i did learn a lot...
thanks mama coz leave me some comments and give me support on my blog.. it give me more motivation to face the challenges..
thansk mama... mama, happy mother's days.. ^_^ miss u and love u

Zuraidah said...

jenice
TQ. I am proud you completed your task successfully. i believed all my students have the capability to do well if they put their minds in it. Good luck to you and may you have a good job that you wish for. Please inform all your friends to read this blog. Much love
mama

haikal said...

mama terima kasih di atas ilmu, kemahiran dan pengalaman yang mama berikan kepada saya tiada ternilai harganya.

salam hormat, selamat hari ibu
haikal hj osman

Zuraidah said...

Haikal
TQ. Selamat berjaya menempuh kehidupan.
mama

peaceonearth said...

Alhamdulillah kak zu, job accomplished and well done. Must be a hectic period for you....well, it pays off, the students must have learned a lot from your supervision and it is indeed a learning process to all of them, a turning point that will change their perception on lots of things in life.
Good job kak zu, and thank you for your sharing in this blog and superb summary, I learned a lot from it too and thank you for helping the department kak zu, God bless.

atiqah said...

salam ma..

really proud that all of my junior have completed their job really well..congrats to them..hope that they can be better than us..=)

love..
atiqah

Zuraidah said...

Jem
Tq. It was such a great relief. I am fatique. Unfortunately there are 3 more people to supervise till 15 May. But there will be kompilasi to mark. Jobs not fully done yet!
Hope you are well there.
KZu

Naj79 said...

I'm the happiest person...your supervision is over. Enjor your retirement! It's time for you to relax yourself.

Exec Haz said...

salam mama...
thanks for everything.
i do learn a lot from you, not just ethics and other counselling stuff, but learn much about life. wanna share something that I kept it up almost 4 years from you. remember the 1st day we met? at faculty (the old one). it was my 2nd day at UNIMAS. you said it is hard to study counselling here. no holidays. no relax. no no and no. it is not easy to make it to the end. and the word I remember the most is.." are you sure to continue? or you want to change your course?". and after that, i can't calm down. i'm too worried about my future, thinking whether i should just quit or what. it is hard for me cause i got nobody here. i pray a lot and make my decision. it work and it worth. i make it to the end even have to face a lot of hard and pain, but i do learn from it. and everything you said are true. you said 'it is hard to study counselling here'... and the next word that said in my heart is 'doesn't mean i can't make it'. alhamdulillah, i'm done. thanks a lot for everything mama. thank you very much. miss you so much. and alhamdulillah, i just got my very first side job... giving talk 'stress management for women' at Ibu Pejabat Penjara Sarawak on 22nd may. wish me luck and thanks again.

Zuraidah said...

Dear hazrul
I did talk a lot, didn't I? I forgot the things I told you people. Good you remembered and remind me of it. I am proud you completed what you aimed for, that's what goal means. Having goal in life helps you set yourself to achieve it. I am glad in some ways I have helped you achieved what you set for. Good luck.
mama

fazlin said...

salam mama..
wah..it almost over mama...after completed marking the kompilasi, mama akan MERDEKA..hehe...
thankz 4 all ur patient mama..hanya Allah shja yg dapat balas jasa mama..=)

the photoz that u upload were so sweet..really miss the time we had together, struggle 4 our internship...=)

eppy mother's day + Eppy teacher's day mama..*_*

Zuraidah said...

Fazlin
Yes, the internship brings a lot of fond memories of my interns. The photos are record of our activities. I have enjoyed having you as my student and wish you the best in your life.
mama

Zuraidah said...

Atiqah
TQ for your encouragement to your juniors. They are as good as you. good luck in your life.
mama

atiqah said...

tq mama..=)

skrg dh smp masa untuk mama berehat n enjoy ur life..drive carefully k walau di mana sahaja berada..huhu..jgn kena saman lg..

take care..miss ur delicious spageti la ma=)

My Life My Journey.. said...

Nak tumpang blog kzu ni unt wish adik2 yg dlm gambar semua tu 'happy graduation..!!!'...
SaLaM RiNdU pEnUh KaSiH & DeKaT dIsAyAnG JaUh DiKeNaNg... :)

Farah Dianti said...

mama, it has been more than two weeks since the end of our internship. and i could still feel the sweetness of the experience i've gained.. an experience i would not trade for anything else. i could not thank u enough for being my greatest support. ur words of wisdom will always be in my heart.
God Bless U and may u'll have a wonderful retirement ~_^
Love U So Much!

Zuraidah said...

PhaDee
TQ. I am glad internship brings wonderful memory to you. Enjoy your graduation with much love from me to you and to all your classmates. I am sure you will do well in life. Good luck.
mama

Asnida said...

Salam mama,
Thanx a lot mama di atas apa yg mama telah berikan sepanjang internship...I learn a lot from it..Now dah betul-betul berkerja baru dapat rasakan kebaikan internship..Kebanyakkan duties di tempat kerja lebih kurang apa yang perlu dilakukan sepanjang internship..
Thanks mama coz banyak memberi nasihat and support..
jasamu tetap dikenang...
=)

Zuraidah said...

Asnida
TQ for visiting my blog. I am proud of you and your effort to give the best in your internship. Glad that you are working. All the best to you.
mama