Resolved?

My 3 children were surprised that this old issue surfaced again when I brought it up in the family conference tonight. I decided to talk to them, at least to ease my anxiety and to find some amicable resolution. They were not pleased that I kept this to myself for sometime creating unnecessary anxiety and depression. In actual, fact I was towing with the idea of sharing this with them as I didn't want them to be burdened with my issues. All three unanimously expressed displeasure of my decision to keep this to myself. Izrin turned on me saying I should practice what I told them to do - to share and not to be by myself when I feel depressed, that I shouldn't stay alone in PD, that I should come back to PJ and keep myself occupied with Rania and gardening. Oh well, sometimes I forgot that they are not young children anymore. Ika pointedly told me this that they are matured thinking adults and I should trust them. I was amazed at their responses and felt proud thinking that I must have done something right in bringing them up, being loving and caring children.
The action-oriented Maz quickly acted on the issue and sms me later saying the issue will be resolved and that I am not to worry anymore. She will take care of it. I believe her but will be more at ease if I get some kind of firm confirmation that the claim is dropped unconditionally. I know if there is any condition attached to it I'll protest.
I feel more at peace with myself now. Rania also helped me tremendously. She was so excited seeing me, calling 'nenek' and impatiently waited for me to carry her. It was so great seeing my little 'jantung pisang' again, a one year old chatterbox (in her own language).
I had an AGM in Port Dickson in the afternoon. Being one of the council members, my presence counted. It was a good meeting with 2 new owners join force. The resort needs more experienced and dynamic owners to volunteer as council members. Functioned as a voluntary council member for 2 years in the management, is an eye-opener experience but quite frustrating. Decisions made in MC meeting are slow being enforced by the manager, many owners default in paying service charges and lack of management supervision. I hope 2011 will be a better year and we are able to upgrade the resort.